A carefully planned reception timeline is necessary to maintain a smooth wedding affair.
After all, this is when the celebration really starts. Below is a quick cheat
sheet to a traditional schedule followed by millions of couples all over the
world. It may be customized based on
the bride or groom’s preferences. It may also differ depending on the
customs and traditions of a specific country. However, the basic order of
events is itemized here. Let this be a guide to those who are tasked to
organize the party and have the huge responsibility to make this occasion
extra-memorable.
Part
1. Cocktails and Hors
d’oeuvres.
As soon as the ceremony ends, the new husband and wife often
head off some place for picture-taking. Meanwhile, the guests are asked to
proceed to the reception venue. While waiting, appetizers and wines are
presented to them.
The term “hors d’oeuvres” refers to food items served before
the main course. The variety of choices is determined by the formality of the
theme and the culture of the attendees. Popular picks comprise of vegetable
salad, bread rolls, taquitos and imported or domestic cheese with crackers. On
a cultural perspective, if you’re having a catering event in a Philippine setting, some
exotic recipes include kebab frog or frog barbeque in Filipino and kuhol or
expensive snail/slug.
Part
2. The Grand Entrance, Introduction and Dinner.
The
arrival. The parents (bride first, groom after), the entourage (bridesmaids,
groomsmen, maid of honour, best man, flower girl and ring bearer) and then the
newlyweds enters the hall.
The
first dance. This is like announcing publicly that “two
becomes one”. So they dance – him and her. Then, her with her father, him with his
mother.
The
toast. Usually headed by the best man, he speaks his best wishes.
The maid of honor, and the parents make their speeches as well. This segment
officially marks the end of the cocktail hour.
Dinnertime.
Everyone takes turn to go to the buffet area. Otherwise, the
catering
guys hand out their shares.
Part
3. The Party.
The
Dancing. After dinner, the sweethearts take the center stage to take
the lead. This formally announces that it’s grooving time.
The
Cake Cutting. As they cut it together, the action signifies
that they would be there for each other no matter what. Afterwards, the cake
serves as a dessert for all.
Special
Program. Majority considers a special program to follow. This
includes the tossing of the bouquet and garter.
